Success Is Nothing But A Dream (Unless You’ll Work Your Way Through It)

Nobody cares about what you want to do with your life. However, some people think that what you do and don’t do affects your future. Perhaps it’s true. But the whole point of creating life-long decisions is all about you reaching for success. Therefore, everything you desire will remain as is if you will not find yourself working through the things you want to achieve. “Family values are key factors in shaping ideas around success,” said Edie Weinstein, MSW, LSW.


Most people quit their dreams due to disappointments. The collection of pain and failure makes them weak and unaware of their capabilities. That is because they end up doubting themselves. The constant self-questioning takes every positive thing away. It pulls people down and brings them back to the start once again.

Identify What Success Means To You

There will be a time that you’ll experience hardships. It’s inevitable and out of your control. But it doesn’t imply you should stay away from what currently inspires you. Identify what you want, learn about the things that you need, and look forward to the dreams you want to achieve. Always remember what success means to you and how great it will affect you. Avoid concentrating on “what ifs” and “I can’t do it” because it DOESN’T help at all. As what Kirsten Brunner, MA, LPC., said “We spend so much of our time upright, rushing around with tense shoulders.”


Think About Starting The Process

You already know that reaching for something is not going to be easy. There are times that it will make you crawl up in bed and not wanting to get up. The procedure is deteriorating, exhausting, depressing, and somehow not at all worth it. And sometimes, the changes you want to make in your life become impossible due to the unpredictable situations. But, will you allow it to hold you back?

Let’s assume you already have something that you desire. Don’t just picture yourself attaining it without doing anything. Don’t complain and do something about it. Success will never fall right into your hands if you won’t spend time looking, working, and struggling for it. Instead of thinking how exhausting and damaging the whole process will be, plan your way through it little by little. Take chances and don’t be afraid of acquiring the risk.


Change The Way You See Things

Yes, there is a tremendous certainty that you will fail in an attempt to gain success, but don’t let it define you. You are more than that. Instead of crying and keeping yourself broken from the worst things in your life, pick up the piece and rebuild yourself again. Change the way you see things and positively use the negativity. “Try to get in touch with the reasons you joined this relationship or accepted this job in the first place, and try to view the obstacles as opportunities for growth instead of harbingers of the death of the relationship or job,” explained psychologist Ryan Howes, Ph.D. It’s essential for you to believe in yourself because your mental strength depends on it. When no one else is going to stand by you, you still have “YOU.”

Since your mind works in surprising ways, your thoughts become the foundation of your whole success. So do not limit the things you can do because you can create and live in it. Your dream or aspiration in life is nothing but a godforsaken desire. But if you choose to make it real, then you have to work your way through it.